Someone accused me of being a religious person this week, and it offended me. Why? Because I don’t want to be known for my religion, I want to be known for my relationship with Christ. Are you known for your religion or your Christianity?
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Lessons from History Class
“Always check your sources, and don’t just believe everything anyone says,” I warned my U.S. history students. “Don’t believe a history textbook, just because someone wrote it.”
“What do you mean?” someone asked.
“Textbooks aren’t primary resources,” I explained. “They interpret other secondary resources and the occasional primary resource. Which means they might not tell the whole story or even the important parts of the story.”
“But they’re history textbooks,” someone protested, “aren’t they supposed to be right?”
“Think about it this way,” I said, “if a history textbook only mentions Native Americans 11 times in 350 pages, and ten of those times are negative references, do you think the textbook authors are telling the whole story about the history of the United States?”
“Oh. Probably not.” My students, the majority of them Native American, shook their heads.
“It’s important that we look at primary resources and draw our own conclusions, not just follow blindly along with what someone else tells us.”
Heads nodded in understanding.
Religion vs. Christianity
The same applies for religion and Christianity. People created religions based on their understanding of the world or of the Bible. We should never depend on a religion for our answers to life’s perplexities.
Religion won’t save us. Horrible things happen in the name of religion (the Spanish Inquisition and the Salem Witch Trials come to mind). Church ladies in the South in the 60s lined up to yell and curse at a little girl—all in the name of religion. John Steinbeck chronicled the horror of the event in his book Travels with Charley.

If that’s religion, I want no part of it. Religion focuses on getting its own way and convincing everyone to believe the same. Instead of relying on the word of God, religion relies on man’s interpretation and projections. Religion ignores the parts of the Bible (and there are many of them), that talk about social justice.
Christianity focuses on relationship. A relationship with a loving God, Creator, and Savior.
Religion judges first, loves later. Christianity loves first, and lets God do the judging.
Religion fights for its interpretation of right. Christianity fights for love and social justice.
Religion is full of itself, its rules, and its rightness. Christianity seeks guidance from the Holy Spirit and recognizes we all need grace and a Savior.
Religion shouts loudly with vitriol and hate. Christianity acts quietly in love and compassion.
Religion locks its jaws around dogma like a pit bull. Christianity realizes that only God can judge—and we should love.
Can a person belong to a religious institution and still be a Christian? Absolutely! But never let your religion get in the way of your relationship with Christ. Never let your religion interfere with acting as the emissary of a Christ who loves his people to death.
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Yes! Great parallels with the history book and having a religion vs relationship with Jesus!
I homeschooled my boys and always told them to not fully trust a textbook too. It matters what we trust and lean on.
It matters so much! I’m saddened to see so many people failing to use their good sense and common civility these days.
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Relationship over religion every time – thank you Anita! fmf#7
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It’s hard to remember that these days with all the vitriol flying around. I pray for grace daily.
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Yes and Amen so true about history. Thanks for sharing and being honest and straightforward about it. I think it is very good time wise with what is happening in the world.
Thanks for stopping by, Kathy! I appreciate your kind words.
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I choose relationship every time.
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Made me think of Ireland…
They say they have no use for us,
we lads have had our day,
and now are tossed beneath the bus
never more to play
the patriot game that we were taught
by the brotherhood of old,
the hard masked men who stood and fought
that enemy so bold!
No more we’ll hear the Armalites
along the Shankill Road;
Peace has come with neon lights,
but it’s such a heavy load
and perhaps it is too late
for we who were defined by hate.
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Let us never be defined by hate!
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Totally agree and on the same page as you. Well sais Visiting from fmf #27
Great study of religion and christianity. I was a religious person when growing up. I didn’t know any different. I now have a relationship with Jesus and it makes all the difference.
Great read Anita. I think it’s our responsibility as Christians to reflect our relationship with Christ in and through our Religion. They don’t have to be opposing. Our view of Christ determines our Religion since it is an expression of our interpretation of His Word, which if properly interpreted will build deep relationships between God and mankind. Religion is the organizational structure in which we work together to serve God and serve others. And yes! Relationship over structure.
Thanks so much! I thank God for you. You have articulated some things that have been on my heart for a while. God’s peace.